SEX, LOVE AND ADVENTURES

Advices on love and sex - and somewhere to put my own thoughts and experiences about sex.

Anonymous asked: can you took your virginity with a finger ?

You can break you hymen by fingering, though it’s not very probable. But virginity it’s just considered after there’s penetration, after you actually have sex.

Anonymous asked: heeey umm my boyfriend fingered me for the first time and i'm a virgin so i still have my hymen. except he may have got some cum on his fingers before he fingered me. can i get pregnant? i know it may be a stupid question but pregnancy is a scary thing at my age so i want to make sure :) thanks for help

Well, sperm can live outside of the body for only about 20 minutes to an hour, depending on how exposed the semen is to the air and other environmental factors.

I think you’re just fine, but then again, it’s possible. You can start testing for preganncy about 14 days after sex. 


Anonymous asked: I have cam sex with a straight guy friend, and he ask me what I want him to do to himself and I don't know what to tell him. Do you have any suggestions?

Well think about what you would do if you were having or about to have sex with a guy you like. Something like feel his abs, feel how he gets hard, grind, take his boxers off, etc.

Anonymous asked: im virgin , but when i see photos about sex in tumblr.. i get wet so easy, that means that i want to have sex?

That means you’re aroused!

Anonymous asked: Ahhh. Sorry to steal your thunder, but to the tampon anon just a minute ago. Try plastic applicators and a little lube along with trying different positions.

Anonymous asked: my bf have suck me and fingred me and every time i almost gets a orgsm i feel like pee but after i dont at all....whot could it be!??...

it’s called female ejaculation or squirting and it’s amazing!

Anonymous asked: I have never given head before but my boyfriend really wants me to and I do too but I am really scared that i'll like, choke or gag on his dick and make a fool of mmyself. Any tips on how to prevent this or make it eaisier on me?

“If you lay on your back on a bed or kitchen table, or wherever, and let your partner stand and straddle your head as you take his penis in your mouth, you can not only perform a very deep blowjob, but the angle at which he is in your mouth is one that will not induce gagging, as he’s against your throat instead of your tongue. However, if that position isn’t for you, and you’d still like to be able to take in an entire cock without getting teary-eyed from feeling as though you’re choking, the instructors suggested placing two fingers against the furthest part back on your tongue and allowing yourself to get used to the pressure of having something there.”

Anonymous asked: hi, this may sound rather disgusting, but it's something I am worrying about, i find that i have alot of discharge (im a girl) and im worried if a guy fingers me he'll get it on him and find it horrible and turn off. what do i do?? im really worried and i think its pretty much horrid myself , help!!

Some guys think it’s a turn on, others not so much. You shouldn’t worry, because it happens to all of us!

Anonymous asked: my bf wants to have sex but i dont shave down there. and i didnt tell him that too. im afraid that he wont have sex with me because i dont shave. do most guys prefer it to be shaven when having sex? do most guys shave their own pubes?

Some guys shave, some don’t. And most guys like shaved vaginas just for oral sex, other guys really don’t care. Why don’t you ask him?

Also, remember that shaving around your vagina is important and hygienic.